Dear Jazzy,
I like this girl A LOT…and she said it herself that she doesn’t like me like that at all…I’m moving soon and I want her to at least give me a chance before I move…but she just won’t do it…how can I appeal to her?
Hope you can help,
Forlorn Freshman
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Dear Forlorn Freshman,
My advice to you is to get to know her as a friend first but don’t let her know that you’re still trying. Be a friend to her, kind of like a best friend, and soon she will start to like you. It takes a little bit of time, that’s just how the female mind works. But what doesn’t appeal to a woman is when a man tries too hard. So be laid back and become a friend. Then she’ll start to like you more.
Jazzy
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But I already did all of that…I am already really good friends with her…and I dont have a lot of time left… FF
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Dear Forlorn Freshman,
Well, as a freshman you’re pretty young, and you have a lot to learn about love and friends. Considering you tried all of that, I think you should keep her as a friend instead of trying to get with her. I know it may be hard, but you don’t want to try too hard and end up pushing her away as a friend and anything else if she doesn’t choose to be anything more. Friendships last longer than relationships and chances are if you guys are really good friends then a relationship wouldn’t work between you two. Keep her as a friend and shell always be there.
Jazzy